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Disclaimer: For those of you who don’t know, LARP is an acronym that stands for live-action role playing. Yes, like from that movie Role Models, with Paul Rudd. Yes, it’s kind of like Dungeons and Dragons meets Renaissance Faire meets improv theater. Yes, lightning bolt, lighting bolt.
Just talk to people. Shut up, stop thinking you’re supposed to be immediately great at this and talk to people. Ask questions about the world. Find out peoples’ names. Build a rapport with people and don’t remain in your own little clique. Also, bring baby wipes.
More blankets. And not to be so damn stressed and scared of everyone. They don’t bite… at least I hope they don’t…
If you have to make a choice between something that’s probably a safe bet, and you won’t die, versus a dangerous mission, always choose the dangerous mission.
Just talk to people, folks aren’t going to judge you. so don’t be shy. Also, at the same time, no one has any right to touch you and you can ask people to leave you alone.
CALM DOWN. Use a modern bathroom before you get there. Breathe. Featherlite boning is NOT going to keep the shape of your bodice.
Brandon M Burns:
Learn some more folk songs to completion. Approach people with a little caution. Wear more layers. Do everything. Bring snacks. Don’t let people talk down to you/underestimate you just because you’re a cute girl. Accept courtships from no one. Don’t join any organization for at least one year. Stay in character always. If something gets boring, go look for trouble.
Amy Lynn Resele:
Every faulty principle that you’ve built your life on is going to crumble. These people will love you for who you are, and not judge you for your size. Let your guard down, you’re finally safe.
Try not to let others get to you. It’s always scary when you first start and you dont know anyone, but remain strong and true to your character and others will respect you for it, even if not right away.
You don’t look NEARLY as stupid as you think you do… Besides, everyone else is here doing the same thing… go get em! No, you’re not expected to remember everyone’s name the first time. Yes, it’s okay that your costume isn’t as frilly/elaborate/extravagant as theirs. Yes, it’s okay that you forgot your name and that your back history is a tale that can be told in 2 minutes. Just jump in. Worst case scenario, you have something to giggle about when you look back.
Your girly friends from school are never going to know how dorky you were on the weekend, and even if they do, who cares!
Try picking a character that is not so against the grain of the world.
You should pack more socks. That cute guy in the cloak? He’s a dick… Fairy Fire is not as cool as it sounds.
Tara M. Clapper:
Bring friends and you’ll feel less nervous.
Stephanie Leigh Twilley:
Don’t trip over the fire pit.
Rachel Onca Berleman:
Stop taking the world so seriously, and try to bask in a group of people where you feel you belong.
You know how you’re thinking right now that it might be just like Oblivion, but real life? It is. Now kick some ass and have fun!
If you can possibly manage it, take Monday off. You are going to want to sleep for 24 hours after your first event.
Make up a character that has a personality/character quirk/whatever that will cause you to say ‘yes’ to getting involved in things, rather than one who shies away from getting involved in plots. Being a shy/cautious character is all well and good, story-wise, but you are going to want to be doing stuff.
Yes, this IS just like improv, and the same golden rule applies: never say no.
No matter what your boyfriend tells you, la poste di falcone is only going to make you look kinda crazy during your combat test, especially if you only “learned” it a half hour ago.
Elizabeth Mc Allister:
Wander around. Listen to the stories being told around the fire.
Be yourself, don’t be afraid to ask questions, and have fun. You are most likely going to make some of the best friends ever.
Be more naive sometimes… yes, that NPC is probably leading you to danger, but that’s part of how you get really involved in the game. If you think you are going somewhere dangerous, see if you can bring some other players along who you trust in game, but don’t pass up on plot.
Don’t let that cute boy from LARP talk sweet on you, and flirt with you, in his cute costume, and be all adorable and stuff. You might end up marrying him someday. Oh wait.
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